Torontonians are being asked to help a four year
old Montreal girl survive. On Sunday, April 21, 2013 at
Bialik Hebrew Day School (2760 Bathurst Street) and Aish Hatorah Synagogue (949
Clark Avenue in Vaughn ) a stem cell
donor drive will take place in Toronto for Jayden Roll. She
was recently diagnosed with MDS, a disease that may soon develop into AMK
Leukemia. In order to survive, Jayden will need to find a stem cell donor
in the coming weeks. But first, she will have to find a match. This is where
Torontonians can now help
.
First one needs to find out how they can become
a donor here .
You must be between the ages of 17 to 50 to register between 10 a.m. and 5 p.m,
at the two locations or register online at www.curejayden.ca. Volunteers are
also being sought to supervise donors.
Native Montrealer Jennifer Kaufman, who is
friends with Jayden's parents, is organizing the Toronto drive. She
asks everyone to spread the word and follow Jayden's facebook page
and Twitter feed.
There are drives happening like this all over
Canada and the US. This includes Vancouver's Jewish Community Centre (950 41st Avenue West) on April 17 (9 a.m. to 1 p.m. and 4 p.m. to 8 p.m.). See the website for more.
Here is a touching piece Montreal’s Rabbi Menachem Posner shared with me
a few weeks ago about Jayden
“Mom, I had
fun! Rolling the matzah dough was my favorite!” Four year old Jayden Roll
beamed up at her mother in the lobby of the YM-YWHA in Snowdon. In many ways
she is just like the 5,000 other toddlers and children who ground wheat, rolled
dough, and baked matzah at the Living Legacy Model Matzah Bakery. But she is
also very different. Sometimes she is just too tired and weak to do any
activities at all. She also has a short
time left until the doctors think that she will need to remain in the hospital
for an extended length of time.
Jayden has pre-leukemia, known as MDS (myelodysplastic
syndrome) which is very rare in children. Jayden’s doctors predict that it will
most likely progress into acute myelogenos leukemia, or AML, at which point she
will need to undergo chemotherapy and ultimately depend on a marrow transplant
to survive.
Just a month ago, Jayden, a bouncy little girl with blond
hair and an easy smile, was enrolled in JPPS, which she attended together with
her younger brother, Joshua. A bright student, she was eagerly looking forward
to learning about Passover. When she began complaining about aches in her legs
and displaying extreme weakness and lethargy, her mother, Kelly Goodman, took
her to the doctor. After things got worse and Jayden began falling asleep all
the time, a blood test confirmed that she was indeed suffering from a form of
pre-leukemia so rare that the Montreal Children’s Hospital had never treated it
before.
The Roll family’s life turned upside down. Jayden
has been going twice-weekly for blood tests and has already had two blood
transfusions, which explain why she looks and acts exactly like a healthy
little girl—at least some of the time. In order to avoid infection, she stopped
going to school and her parents rarely take her out, even grocery shopping.
Kelly has quit her job to be able to care for her daughter.
“Since she is not in school, and Passover is
probably going to be the last holiday that she will celebrate before she goes
to the hospital, I have been trying to teach her as much as I can at home,”
says her mom. “But the other day we dropped off [her brother,] Josh at school
and she saw the other kids going to the Model Matzah Bakery at the Y. She so
wanted to join them, and we were torn. At first I considered joining the school
group, but my husband, Warren, reminded me how careful we needed to be.”
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| Jayden left and her brother at the Matzah factory. |
Kelly contacted Aviva Miller at the Y, and things
started moving. Rabbi Dovid Weinbaum, program director of Living Legacy, who
operates the model matzah bakery, offered to hold a private show just for
Jayden, Josh and a few family members.
According to Marlene Jennings, executive director of
the YM-YWHA, “When Rabbi Dovid came to me with his request, I thought ‘this is
exactly what the Y is all about. We have to make sure that no one at all is
left out.’”
From exactly 2:30 to 3:30 pm, between one school
group and another, Rabbi Weinbaum carved out an hour of time for Jayden and her
guests. The staff made sure to sweep the floors, wipe down the counters, and
put fresh paper on the table where Jayden would roll her matzah to minimize
chances of infection.
In a rare island of normalcy in a life that has
become decidedly abnormal, Jayden giggled as she pretended to drive to a farm,
kneeled down as she separated wheat from the stalk and, together with her
brother and cousin, turned the crank on the miniature well as she drew water to
mix together with the flour. She then rolled the dough into matzah, the thin
crackerlike wafers eaten on Passover to commemorate the Biblical Exodus, when
the Israelites left Egypt in such a hurry that they did not have time to allow
their bread to rise.
Rabbi Weinbaum says that getting a hug from Jayden
and hearing how much she loved the experience is what his work at the Living
Legacy is all about. “We are here to make sure that every child can experience
the beauty of Judaism, no matter the situation.”
Kelly is realistic about what the future holds. “We
just found out this week that neither of her brothers are a match for her, so
we are starting to look for a donor,” she said
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